I define consistency as
performing an activity on a regular basis. Otherwise we perform
activities irregularly, maybe once a month at random intervals, or
give up altogether after a week or two.
A regular basis can be
daily or weekly, depending on what we're doing. It can also be
cyclical. In fact, consistency need
not be every day for the rest of our lives, nor should it be. The
body and mind need rest to perform at their best. We naturally perform activities in cycles and, in the long run, we thrive as much from built-in
downtime—weekends, vacations, and holidays—as we do from our work.
But body and mind need something to rest from. In the end success comes from the
amount of work we put into any given activity (the rest helps us work more diligently in the future). Work, in this case,
does not necessarily mean “effort.” The term Wu Wei best
describes the trust given to consistency.
Wu Wei is “effortless action.” It is trusting the process. Trusting that consistency can make us successful, and leaning on our intuition and natural talents. It is simply letting nature
run its course, the brain learn, and the body improve.
This is precisely what
I've done as a writer, and what many other writers
have done without realizing it. We improve through a form of play, spinning stories, each story better than the
last as we pick up little improvements here and there.
It is an effortless
process in that it needs not be forced, or for us to exert
unnecessary force to make it work. We do not have to wind ourselves up and put
pressure on ourselves to do something that, if left alone, the mind
and body will do on their own. It is much like opening a stuck jar
lid. Relaxing the hand, taking a deep breath and exhaling while turning
the lid slowly, calmly, will open what brute force could not
accomplish.
The process of improvement
does itself. Like the egg cooks itself naturally in the heat of the pan, the human brain naturally, as a matter of course, turns play into progress.
This process of “work as
play” applies itself to anything and everything we human beings can
imagine to do. If we have any natural talent at all for something,
playing at it will gradually and certainly train the mind to function
better at it. And consistent play means consistent improvement, even if the consistency and improvement are cyclical, with natural ebbs and flows in productivity.
Many of us go about
improving ourselves by making the activity more difficult. We add
pressure to the process as if we hope to create diamonds, while in
reality all the pressure we ever needed exists already. Anymore than
that will crush our “diamonds” into dust.
The greatest challenge to
consistency and overall success is our swiftness to sell ourselves
short. We expect quick results, and when they do not immediately
appear, we give up and say “I'm not cut out for this.” But if it's
something we truly enjoy, we must ask ourselves “how much would a
year, or two years—or ten years—of my consistent daily or weekly
practice improve my skill?”
Providing built-in cyclical
breaks, periods of inactivity to allow the brain and body to
recharge, reinvigorates the process of learning and growing.
Success comes because
of this process, and despite our other “forced” efforts. Success
is different for each person. For one their dream may be to win a
championship or to earn a million dollars, and to another it is only
to be healthy or to supplement an income—or to simply say “I am
good at this.”
And the process works
whether it's applied to a small or large scale. Even hobbyists, like
professionals, have moments of exhaustion or boredom in which they
feel that quitting would be easier than going on. This is the final
advantage of consistency. Those willing and able to push on through
these periods of time, knowing that their heavy feelings will pass
and that they will once again enjoy the practice or the outcome of
what they're doing, will find that in their continuity they have put
all the pieces together.
Nothing is finished if it
is quit. What every successful person has in common is their
consistency, day in and day out, often for years of their lives, but
never giving up.
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